Married!
My husband and I are convinced that we had the best wedding ever.  My biggest hopes for all the other brides out there is that they feel the same way about their own weddings.

This is just my advice... It worked for me, but it might not be for you.  Take it with a grain of salt!

Some advice:

1.  Research, research, research for good vendors.  Quality vendors is the single easiest way to reduce stress on your wedding day.  Listen to recs from the boards.

2.  The advice from other brides is great, but you know what is best for you and your wedding.  Case in point:  Everyone seems to recommend you get a videographer.  I started to want one too... until I realized that I don't like watching myself on camera.  We didn't have one (but did have a friend tape the ceremony) and I don't regret it one bit!

3.  Unless you're getting married on a holiday, there is NO REASON to send save the dates.  As cute as they may be, they are an unnecessary expense and lock you into a guest list way before that needs to be done.  Guest lists grow, relationships change... don't send the STDs!

4.  You can have a wonderful wedding at any budget.  Prioritize!  We by no means had an unlimited budget, but we had everything that was important to us at the wedding.  More money went to our more important things and we saved in other areas.

5.  If you are in or around the Toledo area, use the Libbey Glass Outlet!  They run 15% off coupons almost every week.  I bought cylinder vases for 1.99, bouquet vases for 1.37, and glass votive holders for .33 (all before the coupon)!  It's definitely worth utilizing if you're in the area.  Cheaper than rentals!

6.  Don't stress the weather.  If it says it's going to rain, buy some cute boots and an umbrella, gear up for some cute rainy pics!  There was a 70% chance of thunderstorms on my wedding day, and it only rained for the 30 minutes we were in the church for our ceremony.

7.  Take some time to be alone with your new husband.  My husband and I decided to just drive our regular car from the ceremony to the reception, and it was one of the best choices we made.  It was nice to just be alone for a few minutes and talk about how surreal it was that we were really married!